While I don’t have pictures of anything really substantial from Jessie and Troy’s wedding, I do have pictures of a herd of mini horses, Jessie getting ready for the big day, and a pitstop at Havre de Grace, MD on the way home after the wedding.
Last night I hosted Bunco while Hugh was playing softball.
We still call it Bunco even though it’s really just wine, snacks, and catching up on everyone’s happenings.
We had jalapeño hummus, spinach artichoke dip, and bruschetta. All simple, all homemade, all delicious.
And as we all started sharing what we’ve been up to, I realized we could spend the whole night toasting each other.
A toast to a ladyfriend completing her grad school program and another beginning hers in the fall.
One for a just married ladyfriend and two more with weddings in the coming months.
A brand new job recently started and two new jobs starting in the next few weeks.
Commitments to run races, hit the gym first thing in the morning, and renovate a home.
That’s a lot of awesome things going on among nine pretty great girls and I feel pret-ty lucky that they let me hang out with them.
This time last week I was in Pennsylvania at Jessie’s childhood home checking off the final to-dos and counting down the hours to Jessie and Troy’s wedding.
I road-tripped up with the happy couple and their pup Dexter, leaving my beloved behind to finish ticking and tying his audit (I don’t know accounting things, but I assume that’s what he was doing). Troy and Dex shared the back seat.
Our first order of business, according to the three-page check-list the bride was clutching, was to assemble the welcome bags for out-of-town guests’ hotel rooms. In the midst of the operation, however, Jessie’s dad alerted us to a herd of feral mini horses with a bunch of foals down the road. Jessie wasn’t impressed, but I begged enough and off we went to visit the baby horses.
Back at the ranch, we packed up the groom and the welcome bags and headed a few towns over where the wedding was taking place to run some errands (lunch, tuxes, etc.) and drop some things — and Troy — off at the hotel.
When Jessie and I returned to her parents’ house, we played with the dogs, went out to dinner, and played with the dogs some more before attempting to get a good night’s sleep (which Jessie failed to get, despite my best efforts not to snore).
Friday morning it was time for nails with Troy’s sisters, nieces and nephew, followed by lunch, reception set-up, ceremony rehearsal, and a beautiful rehearsal dinner.
Jessie was calm and beautiful all day Saturday. We got our hair and make-up done in the bridal suite, Jessie ate chicken fingers, I cried when her mom and I zipped her into her gown and again when I put her veil on … and again when her dad came in for the first time.
And when we got to the church nice and early as the incredibly organized bride had planned, I had time to go double check a few things in the reception space leftover from the first double-check. I ran across a field barefoot in my bridesmaid dress and glamorous hair and make-up, the sheep in the churchyard baa-ed at me, and it was worth it. After tidying a few details I got to scurry back and share pictures with the anxious (in a good way) bride.
And she was happy.
Before I started my walk down the aisle, I turned to Jessie and told her that I love her. The joy between her and her dad in that moment right before the wedding was incredibly sweet.
Jessie and Troy’s ceremony was beautiful, and I was so happy for them that I did the gator later that night at their reception.
I’ll upload actual pictures from my actual camera sometime soon. Probably.
Jessie’s wedding is only a week away now, so we spent some time in the wedding lab (as Hugh called it during my prep for our wedding) putting some finishing touches on things like programs and welcome letters.
When things are centered and adding up correctly, and to-do lists get checked off, Jessie smiles.
PS – remember Dexter’s Laboratory??